Monday, January 25, 2016

Hamptons Wedding Venues: How to be the Best Bride and Groom

It takes some effort to be on someone’s big day at one of the Hamptons wedding venues. Women have to have their hair done and their faces dolled up, and the moms need to find babysitters for their kids at home. Some of the men might have to do long drives from wherever they’re coming. Most of the guests will have to find special gifts, and dress up better than they usually do.

Below are a few tips on how to become the best bride and groom ever, so that all the trouble will be worth it:

Feed them well. Do make an effort to find good food that’s within your budget. That’s what food tastings are for. And once you’ve booked the caterer, discuss ways to keep your guests’ tummies satisfied. Between the wedding ceremony and the reception, there might be some waiting time. Make sure appetizers are served, along with some drinks. And for the reception itself, do consider the time of your wedding, the number of your guests, and the combination of your dishes to come up with a great menu. Expect them to be hungry if the ceremony happens just before a mealtime. Provide some leeway in case some people tag others along, or come for second helpings. And talk to your caterer’s chef for items that will go well with each other, as well as your available beverages.

Don’t forget to relax. Once you get into the thick of the preparations, you might become so stressed that you forget what this is all about. And on your wedding day, your guests will see and feel this. You have a choice whether you will let the wedding planning reveal the worst parts of each other, or to strengthen your bond by simply enjoying the journey together. So, promise to treat each other well even as you disagree, and to always meet halfway with a smile on your faces.

Think of an appropriate wedding program. Do think of your guests when you plan your program. If you’re having kids at your reception, find a way to keep them entertained. Don’t force attendees to play games you yourself would not like to play. Find a wedding band whose musical repertoire match your guests’ preferences. And, try to keep the program short, but sweet and meaningful.

Good luck planning your big day at one of the best Hamptons wedding venues!